Grandmotherhood

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My grandmother is at the right and her mother at the left.

Motherhood is a tough topic as I was emotionally castrated from it. The first males stole from me trust in love and my own mother crushed my female value. But how can this be?

Simple. I was really unlucky and unskilled. This is a risky world where people place their own desires before the common wellness. And I faced situations I could manage.

Wrongly in Latin America the girls are raised to be tamed. You are supposed to be the perfect wife and mother some day. So it is the duty of the women around you to prepare for the lifelong duty. So one of the most important rules is absolute militarist obedience.

They raise geishas. Lovely vulnerable dolls to be kept in a cupboard. They only answered when question. never raise your voice or make your opinion count. forget your will. be beautiful at all cost. never have the intent to question authority even if its wrong.

Girls have to say hi to the house visits. They respect their elders. They follow males orders. Never speak up your discomfort because its rude. never talk about abuse because you will be judge. its always your fault.

Now that I am wiser I am in the moral duty to raise the revolution require to free us from thus mental slavery.

As I was raised by a rebellious brave woman. My grandmother. I will devote a internet facebook page to start this battle.